You long for deep intimacy AND a passionate sex life.

But you do not know what to do or where to start to have that.

That's when you come to me so I can help you investigate what is causing you to shut down.  

For example, if you have a pattern of holding back sexually and not giving yourself fully, it is a behavior that you have learned somewhere, sometime to keep yourself safe and secure.  

And by not letting go but maintaining some control at all times, you maintain this sense of security.  

It is not always that you are aware of this, but instead, you wonder why you do not have an orgasm/stand or do not dare to surrender yourself completely to the moment or diminish yourself, or do not dare to express your needs in certain contexts.  

You can see that it inhibits you and prevents you from living fully as a sexual being but nothing you have tried so far has worked, neither talk therapy nor courses in tantra and personal development.  

It could also be that you feel too shy and awkward to approach someone you find exciting and attractive, or you feel ashamed of yourself and don't dare to show yourself physically or emotionally to someone else.  

It means that you live your life without the closeness you really want and live on the "crumbs" instead of having the whole experience yourself.  

As we work together with this and other difficulties around sexuality and intimacy, we use body exercises to clear away these unconscious limiting beliefs you have and replace them with ones that empower you so that the closeness and connection you've longed for can become a reality!

For whom?

For you who have decided that it is now the END of hiding away from everything called feelings, intimacy, and closeness and instead dare to face EVERYTHING that you are and carry with you.  

Expect a dizzying, highly transformative journey inward, where you get to experience what true expansion means!  

You get to feel your power which makes it easy for you to set boundaries and make sure you meet your needs.  

You find the courage to dare to stay in difficult situations and that makes you confident in yourself.  You dare to show your vulnerability, which leads to you getting much closer to those you want to be close to.  

You can feel that beautiful, fragile, beautiful depth in your intimate relationships that makes you let go and just give in.  

You get to experience how pleasure can make your whole body orgasmic and make you so alive and present in your intimate relationships.  

We lift you up so that you can FULLY ENJOY your body's wonderful experiences while you are DEEPLY ANCHORED AND SECURE in yourself.  

It is the way home to yourself and from there you can invite so much love, closeness and contact.

To a deeply intimate life



You have decided that NOW it's time to THRIVE so that you can have the deep closeness and sexuality you really long for.  No more holding back or hiding!    

This is a deeply transformative journey where you reprogram your entire system to awaken your passion and ability to feel deep intimacy.     

You have FULL SUPPORT throughout our time together.  This means that you can email me about anything that comes up and I will always answer you within 24 hours.    

You also get exercises that are specially designed for you to do at home between our sessions. It is both as support and to help you further in your process.   

Investment 24,900 kr. Installment available.


In the first month, we start the process with a session three weeks in a row followed by a week of rest. This more intense gives you a good basis to continue forward.


For the following 3 months you will have a session every two weeks to give you plenty of time to do your home exercises and integrate what we do during our sessions.


We finish with a follow-up session 4-6 weeks after month 4. You can then use it to go deeper into something or resolve what feels difficult to do yourself.

- The sessions take place from the comfort and safety of your home so that you can focus on our time together in peace and quiet 
- Each session is 75 minutes
- Powerful practices between the sessions that are specifically created for you to support and deepen your process
- Support from me via email between sessions so that you can relax into feeling held in your process
- Partial payment is offered

I GET that this is very intimate work and taking that first step is really scary when we perhaps haven't met or chatted.

If you are curious and want to know more about HOW I can support you to explore the true reason why you do not have the intimacy you desire so that you can transform it into feeling safe and experiencing a deep connection, closeness, and intimacy with yourself and others. Then I encourage you to make an appointment to talk below so we can get to know each other.

Who am I who invites you?

Hi! I am Sandra Bergman

I am here to gently invite you to yourself and to the deep yet wild intimacy you dream of and long for.

I really care about you.
I want you to allow yourself to have deep and close intimacy.
I want you to be comfortable with all sides of your sexuality.
I want you to grow powerful and deeply grounded in yourself. Because I know how important this is for you to enjoy life to the fullest.  

For 13 years I have held workshops and sessions on intimacy and sexuality. It started with me becoming a sexsibility coach, which has been followed by some of the most comprehensive pieces of training in the world today in tantra and sexuality, including with Layla Martin and Ma Ananda Sarita.  

I have also studied with shamans for several years, which has taken me on several longer training and trips around the world where I have been inspired and initiated.  

Thanks to having done my inner work myself, I know how to guide you in a safe way that is unique to me.  

All of this training and experience has given me an extensive library of methods for a variety of difficulties that you will be exposed to during our time together.

So welcome to take my hand and I will accompany you with ease and authenticity on perhaps your greatest journey ever.

Words about working with Sandra

 "I love myself from a completely different place today, 
from the bottom of my heart and I am here and supporting myself.“ 

 “I feel very safe with you and really felt that you read me very well and challenged me appropriately.  I think you are very calm, soft and trustworthy. You have felt and read me in a way that has allowed me to relax and dare to give in to the exercises.  

I see that my self-worth has improved, I listen better to what I feel and want.  

And when I get into a situation where I had previously "fallen out", I can now remain in it, see that I am not alone or useless, I have and receive support from the old wise woman who holds me and my inner child. ”


"It really feels like you genuinely care about me 
and want me well which makes me really feel safe with you. “    

“I have appreciated the sessions with you very much and would really like to thank you for giving me this opportunity to meet myself while being coached by you. You feel so knowledgeable in many areas and empathy.  

You made me realize what I need and long for and how I can get it and what I can actually do.  

I also feel that I am more and more questioning how I want to live the rest of my life and that I want to start taking steps towards change. ”


"I felt safe to express myself fully and felt    
personally connected to Sandra as my coach."  

“Sandra was able to provide and hold a safe space for me to express my needs and frustrations. 

I was impressed with how powerful each session was and how well 
each session connected to each other.          

I experienced the feeling of personal power, courage and having strong boundaries 

for the first time in my life, plus I experienced the potential inside of me to embody those to the fullest.       

Finally I expressed myself fully to my partner without fear which is the start of deeper intimacy.”


Frequently asked question

Yes, it does.
 I have been coaching online for over three years, and the results are just as good. The only difference is that you do not have to travel to me but simply log in to the zoom link that I send you. The sessions are as deep and healing as if we had been in the same room. In addition, you get homeplay between the sessions and free access to me via email.

No, it is not.
 Our work together has nothing to do with nudity. What we do is discover where in your body you have blockages that prevent you from achieving what you desire and dissolve them. It happens through guided experiences inside your body and without you having to touch yourself in any way. However, we can agree on practices you perform yourself at home between our sessions that involve both nudity and intimacy if it is in line with what you want to achieve.

You decide that yourself!

This is your journey and I invite you to participate in whatever way feels right for you. You will be given homework to do every week and you can get involved as much or as little as you want.  

My recommendation is to spend time doing these exercises regularly once or twice a week, preferably more, because that's how you slowly get the lasting changes you want.  

Remember that you are reprogramming yourself to a new way of being intimate and it takes time.
This is also why the program is 5 months, so that you get all the support you need for a longer period of time.

Yes, you can.
 I offer a partial payments, see below.

Our contract period begins to apply from the first session, which must be completed within 4 weeks from the date of purchase.
The contract period applies to the number of months purchased plus an extra month.
After that, the agreement is terminated even if you have outstanding sessions.
Should an emergency situation arise where you need extra time, this is done in consultation with Sandra.  
Cancellation of sessions must be made at least 24 hours before, otherwise, it is considered used up.  
By your payment, you accept these terms.


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